When and how did the word “abortion” become as abhorrent as a cuss word? Even the whispered word can silence a room. I know. I’ve done it. Who do we blame? The “fake news” the “alternative facts” the “something-else-in-media-today”?! With all the finger pointing flying around our legislative bodies maybe we need to look inward? Maybe we need to let the trickle down trickle right to our doorsteps much like the spring rain.
Will making the word more mainstream help us? Using it more in daily vernacular? How about a challenge? Humanize the word. Think of the women, families behind the word. Not all reasons for abortions are the same, think more like snowflakes. All different, but all make snow. All reasons for abortions are different – financial, life goals, timing, needs, wants, desires – but all make up the collective of abortions.
I am here to help. At Maine Family Planning we ask women to share their stories. Here is a handful:
“I love and adore the children I have and it’s my responsibility to make (the) right choices for them, without this service I could not accomplish this.”
“At 40 years old, faced with an unwanted pregnancy I made the choice to abort. My choice – how lucky I am to have that choice and be taken care of by the most compassionate staff.”
“I am a single mother with two children who is struggling to just get by. We live at a shelter and have no income. I have been taking birth control and hadn’t had any problems. I got pregnant with this child while using my pills. Due to my situation, I decided that I would not be fair or right to bring this child into this family and to also take what little we have away from my two girls. I truly feel that this abortion was the right choice for me at this time.”
“I came for my abortion and the protesters didn’t have any impact on me. I had my procedure done due to medical reasons. It was my choice and I do not feel guilty at all.”
“Some people say it’s not a choice; it’s a right but when you’re in a spot you need to do what you have to. Trust us, it’s not easy but this world has its ups and downs. You don’t know my reason. I’m sure everyone has one and only God can judge you.”
“I am so thankful for having the right to choose. Protesters and others don’t take into account the negative cycle of events that often occur when so many children are brought into this world by parents who are not mentally, financially, or emotionally prepared.”
“The thought of someone else making a decision about my body/my pregnancy is a very unsettling feeling. It’s my body, my life, my choice. America is the home of the free. It’s my right to decide what happens with my body.”
Seven. Seven stories to help you humanize an essential piece of women’s reproductive rights.
Maine Family Planning is committed to preserving all aspects of women’s reproductive rights and we are here for you.