I can’t even tell you how many times and in how many different settings I’ve heard this phrase. There’s the woman who cuts my hair, the physical therapist who helped repair my sore ankle, the dental hygienist who cleans my teeth, and the high school classmate I saw at our reunion.
When I tell them where I work, women love to tell me how important family planning was to them when they were teenagers. Depending on the situation and how well I know the person, I may ask “Why don’t you go to family planning now?”
That’s when I get the look. You know the look — the one that suggests you just said something really, really dumb.
The answers I get, although unique to each woman, are always based on two common assumptions about family planning — two common and false assumptions. Continue reading